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Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Writing Teachers Learning from the Process

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Lessons Learned 

I just finished an intensive two weeks with the Columbus Area Writing Project where a group of seven of us met every day to write and give each other feedback on chapters we are writing for a book.  We wrote for 2 1/2 hours each morning and then met for feedback in the afternoon.  As the group leader, I took on the role of editor, something new for me.  When taking on any new role, I am always a little uncomfortable.  These were my friends and colleagues I was working with.

When I met with the writers, I had my own editors (who've been doing this editing thing a long time) swirling around in my head.  I worried that I wouldn't be able to give valuable feedback to move people forward.  What if someone didn't like what I had to say?  Taking on this role had many more challenges than I first imagined.

Now that the two weeks are over, I know I've learned some valuable lessons that I will take back to my classroom:

  • The type and timing of feedback is critical.  Each writer found different types of feedback to be helpful at different times in the writing process.  How often do I sit down next to a child to give feedback, not knowing if the child is ready for it or not?  I know that I will be explicitly teaching my students how to give and ask for quality feedback.  And I will make it a point to ask students for what they might need as a writer when I sit down next to them.
  • Talk is an important part of the feedback process.  Questions can spur thinking forward.  Allowing time for both of these is important.  
  • Over the two weeks, our group created a strong bond.  That came from not only working hard together, but also laughing together and sharing stories.  It's made me rethink how I might form writing partnerships and writing groups in my classroom.  I'm thinking that next year, I will form small groups that will stay together for an extended period of time so that the students can get to know each other as writers.
  • Everybody's needs are different.  (I already knew that, but these last two weeks were a good reminder).  Some of us liked listening to music while we wrote.  Some of us needed to be by ourselves.  Some people needed to print out their work and write on top of it, while others did all of their work digitally.  I ask myself how I can do a better job of helping kids find the process that works for them.

The thoughts will continue to swirl in my head as I process the work we did together.  And once again, I am reminded of how important it is for teachers of writers to be writers themselves.  

As I go back and look at the final reflections I did on Friday, I know that my last sentence will always ring true:

My take aways...I still don’t have this whole thing down.  I am always learning and evolving and taking that thinking into my teaching.    

I will take the lessons learned these last two weeks and hopefully be an even better teacher and coach when I go back to school in August.

Sunday, June 28, 2015

Jumping into #clmooc: The Unintroduction

The #clmooc community has been busy "unintroducing" themselves.  The first make intrigued me from the beginning...unraveling the introduction and looking at how we introduce ourselves personally, professionally, and online.  I immediately went to the idea of contrasting who people think I am based on outside appearances, and who I really am on the inside.

I rehearsed  ideas in my head all week, sure of the message, not sure of how to best share that message.  In addition, I purposely stayed away from reading about others' makes.  There was so much to think about that I didn't want what others were doing to sway my thinking one way or another.   In hindsight, I don't know if I'll do that for the next make (which I can't wait to see).  There's power in seeing what others are doing, learning about new tools, and trying some new ideas.  I tried one new app on my iPad, Kaleidescope, and then relied on some familiar apps, Explain Everything and PicCollage.

I used Kaleidoscope to take a photo of my surroundings when I began working today.  As I sat at the patio table, I had my iced tea (always nearby), the grill was going, the flowers were in the background, and I had 3 devices plugged in.   I used Kaleidoscope to show the explosion of everything going on at the same time.  I then added images and text of all the things swirling around in my head.

I needed an image to show the "outside" Julie and chose the one of me drinking tea when out to breakfast with my husband.  It was one of those lovely, slow moving mornings when I did feel nice and calm on the outside and inside.  The thought bubble shows what's typically going on inside my head.  Lastly, I added the text  "Julie on the outside" and "Julie on the inside."

My "Unintroduction"

People often ask me, "How do you do everything you do? You always seem so calm."  Who do people see me as?  I think they see someone who they believe...

  • Is calm and collected
  • Has it all together
  • Is organized
  • Has few if any problems
And I always think to myself..."If only they knew."  Because on the inside I know that I...
  • Take on too much
  • Jump into projects without thinking
  • Juggle a million things and don't always do such a good job
  • Pretend nothing is wrong when I might be crying inside
  • Have a difficult time sitting and doing nothing
One thing about it,  I know that all of the things I do take on, are things that I love.  There is not one thing in the jumble of pictures above that I would eliminate.  
  • Time with my family
  • Time to travel
  • Time to bake and garden
  • Time with my colleagues and friends
  • Time to read and write
So maybe what I need to do is instead of jumping into the deep end, is to slowly wade in.  Because like the sign says, "Cross traffic does not stop."  

Life doesn't stop; it keeps on going.  

Thank you to Margaret Simon for hosting DigiLit Sunday where others are sharing their journeys using digital literacies in their classrooms.  I invite you to visit her site and read other DigiLit Sunday posts.  

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Just Like Kids...Slice of Life Tuesday

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Having two puppies gives me the opportunity to tell LOTS of stories.  I swear, it's just like we have toddlers in the house again.

When they first arrived, we bought two of everything...
2 Kongs
2 frisbees
2 squeaky toys
2 bones

The thinking behind our actions?  Both can have their own toys, no "fighting."

We should have known better.  They are just like our children were when they were little.  They want the same toy.  Scout has no problem grabbing a toy from Jem.  If grabbing the toy doesn't work, she'll lie on the floor, watch Jem play and bark at him.  Her own toy might be lying right next to her, but that doesn't matter.  She wants whatever Jem has.

I was taken aback this evening as I walked past Scout sprawled out in the hallway.  She had just been playing with the new squeaky duck we bought yesterday (we've learned our lesson...we only buy one toy now). I found her lying down with the  duck tucked under her hind haunches.

I'm not sure if she thought she was hiding it, or if she was just making sure her brother didn't take it away from her.

Either way, their antics make me laugh and I am glad that we brought them both home with us that cold day in November.

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Slice of Life: The Push

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I am never sorry when I gather with a group of people who push my thinking.  For the next two weeks, I am spending my days with such a group as we collaborate on a book.  We spend the mornings writing and the afternoons giving and receiving feedback.

Setting the cultural norm for the afternoon of feedback, David Bloome, director of the Columbus Area Writing Project, told us that as writers, we have the right to be pushed.  He likened our work to havruta, the pairing of rabbinical students who are given the tasks to listen, question and challenge each other to deeply understand a passage or text.  

We have the right to be pushed.

We understand that when giving feedback, we are pushing each other to gain a deeper understanding. 

What is story we want to tell?  
How do we position ourselves?
What is the tone we want to set?
How do we show the important work we do?

It puts a new spin on the writer's conference.  

Our work this afternoon was deep, thoughtful, mind-boggling, and energizing.  Questions spurred more questions.  Laughter erupted as people clamped hands over their mouths because it wasn't their turn to talk, or jumped up and down in their seats as they thought of something new to say.  Our conversation was so good, it continued on Voxer after we got home.  

Groups like this feed my soul.  These colleagues of mine who are also my friends help me grow in so many ways.  I am confident that all of us will be pushed to deeper understandings (and probably some completely new understandings) as we work together the next few weeks.

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Summer Days of Making Jam

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It's hard for me to slow down as I transition from the end of school crazies to quieter, summer days.

Making jam helps me ease into slower paced days.
You can't rush jam.
Skip a step, and you end up with a soupy mess, not fit for any morsel of bread.
It forces me to slow down.
It requires concentration...leading me away from thinking about school.

You need just the right fruit...not too ripe.
Crushed not too fine.

Precise measurements.
Rolling boil that can't be stirred down.
A full minute.

Don't rush it.

Carefully ladled into hot jars.

No less than 10 minutes in the boiling hot water bath.

Don't rush it.

And then, listen for the pop.
The jars are sealed.
The jam is ready.

And I am ready for
unhurried days.
Iced tea on the patio.
Books to dive into.
Leisurely walks.